Random TT things....

What is the point of blogging without being random? LOL, here are some random TT Things....

Randomness:

Even though it hasn't worked out for me, I believe in love and happy endings.

I never thought I'd be "ready" to be a parent yet looking back over the past 7 years of my son's life, that was the best time for me to become a mom.

I LOVE kids...I wanted to have alot of them until I had my son...Whew, they take alot of patience to actually PARENT not just have kids...Huge difference.

I enjoy being in relationships but I need for my man to change it up for me b/c I often get bored and lose interest.

I have trust issues....I'm working on them but it's often hard for me to trust that folks are doing the "right thing" by me. Even though I'm always doing the fair thing.

One of my best friends told me I was "too fair."

I love a man with class and who knows how to dress, smell good, and has a pretty smile.

I'd never be a good gold digger. My time is something I truly value. I don't care to pretend just so I can use someone for their money. Plus it comes back to you.

I've had my heart broken before...It hurt like hell and I thought I'd never survive. Guess what? I'm still here! And happy with where I am!

Even though I've been called a flirt, I don't just flirt with the intention of sleeping with someone. I often do it to make others feel good about themselves.

If you earn my trust and respect, I'm extremely loyal and will walk to the end of the Earth for you. But when I'm done, I'm done.

I'd like to say I'm spontaneous but I'm actually predictable but will change it up if I think you've figured me out.

I LOVE R&B, hunchin music, rap, hip hop, gospel, some country, even some rock music...I just LOVE music.

If a man gave me the security, love and intimacy I need and desire, I'd be completely faithful.

I'm often the encourager and motivator for others yet I'm completely hard on myself and often underestimate me. But I'm working on it.

I will write my personal feelings for a couple of reasons. 1. I'm not very comfortable being emotional. 2. I hate rejection and if I sense it when I'm talking, I'll shut up and won't ever share it. 3. I don't feel restricted or interrupted and can get my complete thoughts out.

I am the life of the party or Ms. Social Butterfly however in the last year, I've learned that I need my private time. I treasure my private and down time now and I've realized I don't have to go to every party/social event.

I'm usually on the go...like I will cram as much as possible into a 24 hr period.

I love social networking sites bc it allows us to keep in contact and interact with someone we don't normally see. HOWEVER, I'm extremely private about my love life and relationships. I've seen firsthand where social networking has caused a problem in relationships.

I'm often called spoiled however I do it with a smile and folks get something out of it so I don't disagree with their desire to spoil me.

I've had some very LOW days but nothing to ever regret it all since I've learned something from it all.

I enjoy sex. I have a high sex drive however I don't encourage sleeping around with a lot of people or having casual sex. I'm at a point in my life where it's quality over quantity. Also, I haven't had a STI and don't want to contract one so I'm very choosy about my lover and partner. In addition, I know men talk more than women and it's not very good to have your name in the streets like that.

I've learned you can't do everything with everyone.

I've learned that there is a difference in having sex, being intimate, and making love. Each have their appropriate time and place.

My son is motivation. I try to make sure that I live so that I won't have to disappoint him since he thinks I'm the best.

 I get really excited....like if I'm interested in a guy, if I'm taking a trip, if I get some good news, if I'm having a great day...it doesn't matter.

I'm not a very affectionate person...unless your my son or my lover. I equate hugging with allowing people to be in my personal space and like I said above, I'm not very good with conveying my feelings. So if I hug you, consider yourself special.

I love to dance. I don't know what it is but when the beat moves me, I can't stop. I once went to 4 different parties in one night...I LOVE music.

Both of my birth parents have passed away. I have a step mom who has raised me and my brothers like her own kids. God knew what he was doing when he had my dad marry her....we needed a mom.

My brothers and sisters often forget we're technically "step" brothers/sisters...we were raised as brothers/sisters.

I'm a forgiving person and I choose not to judge others. I don't care what it is they've done....


You know where you stand with me. I'm not passive aggressive at all. I'm pretty honest but try to do it in the most diplomatic way.

If I get married again, I'm going to have a wedding...I didn't get one the first time around.

It used to bother me to say I'd been divorced. Then I realized who's damn business is it anyway. Even though it was hard, I'm glad that we didn't stay together for our son in a lifeless marriage or where we cheated on each other just to "stay together."

I've always been modest...even when I was in my best shape. I'm working on getting back there though.

I don't know if I'd get plastic surgery if I had the opportunity. Some days I say HECK YEAH...other days I'm like NOPE, you get what you see. We'll see on that one.

I don't make my new guy pay for what my old guy did. I think it's wrong and unfair to make someone pay for someone else's mistakes.

I never understood why people come out years later to tell me they had a crush on me. Speak up! If it's not the right time, it's just not the right time.

I believe that actions and words are needed to convey your point. Yes, actions speak loud however your words should back them up.

I LOVE to read.

I've told every dude I've dated that I'm complicated, difficult but you'll end up loving me. It's true. They've all jumped thru hoops to get me. However, some of those have ended not so great.

I am stubborn yet can be completely easy going. I'm stubborn about certain things that may or may not make sense to you.

I hate telling people exactly what to do. I like to know you've taken your time to learn me.

I'd like more kids but that probably won't happen.

My alter ego is a stripper/exotic dancer named Diamond. Started as a joke btwn one of my best friends and I however, I'm always known for doing some dance to some hunchin music.

Yes, I call baby making music "hunchin music." So what?

I believe that you don't have to be perfect to have a relationship with God. I also believe that believers shouldn't judge anyone. Its not your place. Your job is to spread the Word and bring more people to Christ. Not scare them away by being hypocritical and judging them.

I love to shop...not just for me, it could be for anyone.

I love being the center of attention in public.

I love my son's laughter.

I love being silly....a trait that I've obviously passed to my son.

I struggle with alot of things but I don't openly share them with others.

Sometimes I wish I could fast forward my life just to see how it ends up and then go back to the present just to live...I know I know...I  need to have more faith. Working on exercising my faith.

I love to smile and laugh however if there is a picture, I'll only half smile and won't show my teeth.

I'm really self conscious about making sure my brows are always done. Like it's really serious.

Well, that's all I feel like sharing...TTYL